The Toles Family: A Story Of Adoption Donald Antonetty July 24, 2014 All Adoption-Stories Meet the Toles family of Xavier, adopted at 18, Ronnie, adopted at 14 and John, adopted at age 17, by Joe Toles, dad. Post navigation Previous Previous post: Adoption At Age 20: Nefertiti’s StoryNext Next post: Meet the Jacksons