Meet Mike, a YGB parent whose story embodies the belief that every child deserves unconditional love and support. Mike’s journey to fatherhood with YGB showcases the power of moral adoption—a lifelong commitment to a child, irrespective of legal status.

Initially, Mike embarked on the path towards fatherhood with YGB out of curiosity, attending parent training to understand foster care adoption and the needs of foster youth. However, as the classes progressed, he felt increasingly drawn to the idea of becoming a permanent parent to an older foster youth.

Aptly, nine months later, Mike made a profound commitment to a young man he had yet to meet. Despite the uncertainties, it felt right for Mike to take this step.

As they got to know each other, Mike embraced the challenges and joys of parenting. Despite facing obstacles along the way, this new family navigated them together with the support of the staff at YGB.

What makes Mike’s story remarkable is the expansion of his family. Before long, Mike welcomed his son’s 15 year old younger brother into their family. This young man had traveled to the US as an unaccompanied minor and reached out to Mike. YGB was able to connect the family to the Office of Refugee Resettlement who then facilitated an official placement. Despite a language barrier – Mike didn’t speak Spanish, and his new son didn’t yet speak English– they bonded instantly (thank you Google Translator!!)

In just a few years, Mike had become a parent to two young men and soon became a (young) grandpa to a grandson he adores. The boys’ biological mother is still in their country of origin, and the family stays in touch.

Mike’s family embodies the concept of moral adoption—a commitment to a child regardless of legal status. While it may not be legally binding, moral adoption carries immense emotional weight for families like Mike’s.

At YGB, we support and respect families who choose moral adoption. We believe that everyone deserves the unconditional support and love that comes with belonging to a family. Moral adoption is a testament to the power and beauty of family bonds.

Join us in celebrating Mike’s journey, his unwavering commitment to his kids, and the countless families embracing moral adoption with open hearts and open arms.